Pass the Parcel
A parcel wrapped in many layers is passed around a circle while the music plays. When the music stops, whoever holds it unwraps one layer, and the last layer hides the prize. It is a timeless birthday party game, and adding fun tasks between the layers keeps every child involved.
🎂 Ages 4+👥 6-20 players⏱️ 10-15 minutes🧰 A small prize wrapped in 8 to 10 layers of paper, music and a speaker
What you need
Equipment: A small prize wrapped in 8 to 10 layers of paper, music and a speaker. Wrap a small prize in 8 to 10 layers of newspaper or wrapping paper. Slip a task note, and if you like a small treat, between the layers. Players sit close together in a circle.
How to play Pass the Parcel
- Explain: the parcel moves from hand to hand only while the music plays.
- Start the music. The parcel travels around the circle clockwise.
- Stop the music without warning.
- Whoever is holding the parcel removes one layer only.
- If there is a note, they read it out and do the task: tell a joke, dance for 5 seconds, act out an animal.
- Start the music again and keep passing.
- No holding on to the parcel while the music is playing. Keep it moving.
- When the last layer comes off, the child who unwraps it wins the prize.
Scoring and wrapping up
Scoring: Each task done: 1 point. Funniest task performance: 2 points. Unwrapping the last layer: the prize itself.
To finish: Choose a final prize that can be shared, such as a bag of sweets, so everyone ends the game happy.
By age
- Ages 3-5: put a small treat in every layer and make tasks simple, like "Roar like a lion".
- Ages 6-9: add sillier tasks and a couple of quick quiz questions.
Variations
- Big group: make two parcels and run two circles at once, or wrap more layers so everyone gets a turn.
- Buga twist: task notes between the layers, such as tell a joke, dance for 5 seconds or act out an animal.
- Reverse pass: when the host shouts "Switch!" the parcel changes direction.
Tips for the adult in charge
- Watch who has opened a layer and stop the music so that every child gets a turn.
- Use 8 to 10 layers, with a small sweet or sticker in some of the middle layers.
🖨️ Printable pass the parcel task notes
Cut out the notes and tuck one between each layer as you wrap the parcel.
- Tell a joke.
- Dance for 5 seconds.
- Act out an animal for everyone to guess.
- Sing the first line of your favorite song.
- Make the funniest face you can.
- Hop on one foot five times.
- Say something nice about the person on your left.
- Do your best robot walk.
- Roar like a lion.
- Name five fruits in 10 seconds.
- Pretend to be a statue until the music starts.
- Give the birthday child a high five.
- Do three star jumps.
- Talk like a pirate for your next sentence.
- Moo like a cow, then quack like a duck.
- Choose the next song.
- Spell your name backward.
- Pretend you are eating a very sour lemon.
- Wave like the king or queen.
- Do a magic trick or a magic pose.
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Frequently asked questions
How many layers should pass the parcel have?
About one layer per child, usually 8 to 10, so that everyone has a chance to unwrap.
Should every layer have a treat?
For under-6s, yes: a sticker or sweet in each layer avoids tears. Older kids are happy with task notes and one main prize.